Maturity, some remarks
An young plant riping
Osho once stated that the average mental age of a human being in the present age is just fourteen years old. Unless you make an effort, your mental age will stay in the same position as when you start to ripen biologically. Biology needs no more intelligence.
To really outgrow our psychological state of mind during puberty, we have to take responsibility for our own life, and become aware we have a soul.
Some qualities of a mature life:
1 . Purpose
You find your own sense of purpose and happiness to move towards in life. By means of introspection and meditation, you drive yourself towards self-compassion, discomfort and growth. You don't get taken away by numbness escapism - be it through work, holidays, parties, video games, friends, family, porn, sex, alcohol, drugs, television, sports, web browsing, social media or any other form.
2. Courage
You take responsibility for your own life. When you want something, you will be assertive and courageous to get it. Having the guts to be true to yourself despite social pressure is a manifestation of courage.
3. Gentle
You are gentle and respectful and care about the needs of people and want the best for them. Not to feel good, gain attention or to be praised, but because it is the right thing to do.
4. Genuine
Genuine connection is important for you. You have no time for fake relationships and don't seek anybody's validation to feel good. When you don't agree with someone, you tell him or her. You have the capacity to be aware of, control, and express your emotions so you can handle relationships sensibly and empathetically.
5. A Sense of humor
When you laugh at yourself first, no one else can make a fool of you. You make light of your own mistakes and shortcomings before others so you have no problem moving on.
6. Body language
You have eye contact and a friendly smile when you meet people, as this is important to create a connection. Furthermore, your posture and body language is open and you are not afraid to show your presence.
7. Love & sex
Lastly, you view your lover as a partner instead of a possession, you seek connection to share values instead of just fulfilling needs. You are comfortable and honest with your sexual desires.
Thanks for reading!
Paul Bach
Spiritual Awareness Coach
